Personally, I'm very willing to learn a new language, but only if the local people are friendly to me even when I don't speak it very well.
This would make me want to get to know them better.
Skip to content Hi Winston, I know that you try to get viewers excited about your website, but maybe you should post an honest list of countries ranked by how easy it is for an American who doesn't speak the local language to get laid there without paying for it.
In those countries meeting people, esp women, does NOT feel like part of the flow or part of the natural harmony of things.
True I gave a better impression of Russia than was actually there. Check out my fun video clips in Russia and video series Female Encounters of the Foreign Kind and Full Russia Trip Videos!
That's what gives me such confidence, which in turn makes me feel like I have "power" which is addicting and lets me put up with the bad air and food here, the power to choose from many girls and the fact that many girls want me, gives me a sense of power as well.
If any of you are here in person, I could gladly show you what I mean in person.
Maybe you could also categorize them by the race of the expat.
Good places for Asian Americans to get laid overseas. You could post this list on your main page and we could discuss it in the forum here.
Perhaps Winston and others could chime in on chatting up girls in the mall in PH or Thailand? But it's not about my ability, it's just that women here love meeting strangers and are no holds barred and live for the moment.
Basically, as I did in Russia, I just go up to someone I like and say "excuse me, you look pretty and I'd like to meet you, are you with anyone now?
But, IMO the true test is one's ability to meet women in public places, like malls, cafe's, bookstores, museums, waiting at a traffic light, etc.